Seeing her again

How to turn a one-night stand into something more:

Let's say you are waking up (half-sober) next to some girl you just spent the night with. You kind of remember her name; Claire...no...uh...Chrissy... uh Jeff... uh no-oh, that's your name, Claudia. Yeah, Claudia.

You had a great time with Claudia, she is smart and great in bed. Her rack looks great on your face and she screamed your name before she got her orgasm. Wow, this girl's got everything. And she could be yours despite Murphy's Law on Hot Smart women:

Brains x Beauty x Availability = Constant.

If she only knew how to cook...

Anyway, you two slept at her place. You woke up before her and you are checking her out and you decided you would like to see this Claudia again. Cool, nothing wrong with building a customer base. She wakes you up with a shake. Here comes the acting: You wake up startled, looking around.

“Where am I?”

“In my apartment.” She retorts.

“Woah! What happened last night?”

Now wait for her answer. If she responds in negative terms, then you are out of luck. For instance, if she claims “nothing” then she is probably not too happy with the event that took place and wants you out. In this case, get out. There is little you can do. She regrets it, doesn't like you, don't bother.

On the other hand, if she replies “You don't remember? We drank, danced, made out, and came back here...” then you know that she did like the experience and your company. This is good. This means that if you play your cards right and not seem too desperate, she will want to see you again.

You now start to act as if you only did that because you were drunk. You don't want to come across as if you regret it, but you don't want to be all cuddly like Ross from Friends. Your goal is to make it seem as if you were the catch of the night. She caught you. You are about to leave her net unless she does something.

“Men spend years trying to get a woman. Women, on the other hand, spend the rest of their lives trying to keep a man.” -anonymous

The tables have finally turned. It's now her job to figure out how to keep you. They all will try, if not just from pride's perspective “You can't just sleep with me and leave! Come back!”

So you start getting ready to leave. During this time, she can ask you out for breakfast or brunch. If she does, great, go for it. Just don't show you are excited. Look at your watch and pretend you do have a little time for her.

If she doesn't invite you for breakfast, put your shoes and head for the door. Say some nice things to her, how you had fun and how she is a great girl. Open the door and chuckle: “Oops, almost forgot to get your number...” Get her number and before leaving, bust out a:

“Want to go out for dinner tomorrow? I know a great Thai restaurant on North Avenue.”

Don't ask for dinner the same night, (unless things are going incredibly great and you two are planning on making lots of babies). If you do, it will make you seem desperate. If you ask for dinner several days down the road, the fire between you two might die down. So one or two days down the road is ideal. If she asks for a different day, tell her you will call her back to confirm.

Kiss her good-bye and leave.

Tonight you should use the fact that your confidence is through the roof to meet more women. Go out and get laid again.

Call her the next day and remind her that you'll be at her place at 8pm to pick her up.

Dinner should be problem-free.

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