The player's mentality

It can be very distracting thinking about having sex with her while talking to her. It happens frequently to most guys. But it is not the right mentality to be in. This over-expectation of your conversation with her can make you feel nervous and tense. Further, you end up ignoring what she is saying while thinking of all the positions you two are going to be in.

The player's mentality concentrates on the present while getting ready for the next step. Not on the end result. Seduction is a multi-step process with some steps that can't be skipped.

The solution to this problem is to simply concentrate on having at least 20 minutes of conversation with her. Your mind should be on what she is saying and what your response will be, not on her ass and tits and how you plan to oink her. Then, you can start to think about kissing her. Don't think of sex just yet, just kissing her.

This way you can pace yourself and prevent from getting nervous from fantasizing on how great sex will be with her.

A true player tries not to get sexually excited just from talking to some chick. If he does, it will come through in his conversation and actions, his mind will get boggled and he will forget the next step in seduction. His prey will realize what he is up to and guard herself from being persuaded.

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