by Anthony Berger
Why do I insist on getting involved in one-night stands as opposed to dating? What's the best way to have gratuitous sex with different women?
All the other authors out there have extensive techniques and tips on how to get a girl's number and how to ask them out on a date.
I don't. And for a good reason.
Here are some deductions I made after finding some dating statistic in "Cosmopolitan" and "GQ" magazines
What happens when you ask a girl for her number? Why is getting a girl's phone numbers bad?
Because you are postponing something that should be happening tonight.
When you get a girl's phone number at a bar or club, you are allowing something that is presently hot (your encounter,conversation and chemistry with her) to cool down.
By the next time you call her, she will have made some rational decisions about you, as opposed to an emotional decision she could have made had you persuaded her to sleep with you that night (we will explain how its easy to bring them back to your place).
During the time she is waiting for your call, she is taking many factors into account before deciding whether to go out on a date with you or not.
Factors such: Did she like you? Did she like your face? If there was anything weird you said during your conversation. Her friends opinion of you. What her schedule is like. Does she really want to date anyone?
All these factors have to line up for you to get the green light and take her out. Furthermore, even if you do get to take her out on a date, you are not guaranteed sex! Your chances of getting lucky on a first date are less than 20%!
So why should you get her number when you can persuade her to come back to your place the same night?
Your chances of having sex with her by getting her number and taking her out on a date are between 3 and 4%.
And your chances of having sex the FIRST night you take her out by getting her number are between 1% and 2%.
This means that you would have to get 50 numbers from different chicks before getting laid 4 or 5 days from now.
Mathematically, getting numbers does not work. The numbers are against you.
The scenario is even worse when you GIVE your phone number away.
Let me make one thing clear:
WOMEN DON"T MAKE THE FIRST CALL. (it's in caps because I'm shouting)
They are not mentally trained to pick up your number, go over to the phone and ask for you.
You know how nervous we feel when we are about to call some chick we like for the first time? You know how you don't know what to say, how you get butterflies in your stomach and how your voice breaks up? They go through this but then realize that they don' t have to do it. Why should they be persuading some guy to come out?
That's the guy's job. Furthermore, what if you reject them? How will that feel?
So for every 100 women you give your number out to, you can expect one to call. Mathematically, this is not even an option.
The best way to get gratuitous sex is by hooking up in one-night stands.
Just like many things, a one-night stand is a numbers game. Except this time, the numbers are a lot more favorable than they were with getting phone numbers and asking them out on dates. This time, your chances are far greater than any other method.
Statistically this is how it breaks down:
50% Are attached or married, so forget these (this number varies from type of environment, clubs have far less married people than sit down bars)10% Are not in the mood, forget these. They just got out of a long relationship. Or are lesbians. Or don't go for one-night stands under any circumstance.
20% Are in the mood but only to make out. These are women that are having their period or that have something the next morning preventing them from sleeping at your place (maybe they live with their parents). You can have lots of fun with these women, make out and maybe even get to third base. If they give you their number, don't throw it away, but also don't count on it. They may have come to their senses by the time you call later on.
20% Are in the mood for a one-night stand. They don't tell anyone this. You have to seduce them. They enjoy being seduced, it makes them feel like they are finally meeting someone who knows how to excite them.
The best way to guarantee sex with women you never met before is to hit on a few women at a bar or club.
Given that the seduction is happening over a shorter period of time, you are not allowing for a lot of evaluation to be done. Her decision to sleep with you will be emotional as opposed to rational.
If you do this right, she will be so turned on that her first reaction will be to go enjoy the night with you, since she has finally found someone who makes her feel good.
All you have to do is approach them right, tell them special trigger sentences, turn them on during a conversation and subliminally persuade back to your place (or theirs).
It may seem too good to be true, but these are all techniques and methods explained in detail in the Advanced Macking member's site.
Next article: "When to make your move"
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